c’est la vie

A week ago, a young boy asked me how he can quit smoking.

I asked him why he asks this question.  He said because he wants to live longer than her wife.  What he said touched me.

Yes I wanted to die before my other half does. 

One month ago an auntie of mine passed away.  I witnessed the whole long period how my uncle took care of her and how he loved her.  He was with her until the last minute.  He devoted to her 24 hours a day and seven days a week.  He did everything for her.  He was willing to bear all the pain and the loneliness of losing the loved one.

I was quite surprised that a 22-year-old boy would share the same feeling.

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However…

Today, this boy told me that he wants to quit his wife..!! #_#’

有一個小朋友，每次來都哭，而爸爸媽媽依然每次帶他來。

我問 assistant 小朋友為什麼哭，她告訴我，他說他不喜歡老師。

這個星期日，課堂完了後老師跟這個小朋友談了很久，之後就拖了出來交給我，自己再跟他的父母談。我問嬲爆爆小朋友吃不吃瑞士糖，他說不；我問他吃不吃漢堡飽糖，他說不；我問他吃不吃熊仔餅，他就瞇瞇眼，舉起大母指說好．．．我哭笑不得．．．那一刻我覺得他的表情很大人。

連其他家長也說他是老人精。

後來我跟他傾偈，我問他是不是有不滿的地方。我說我是這裡的校工，有什麼不滿都可以告訴我。他說：他有投訴。（！！！！！）我問是不是要投訴其他小朋友，他就說要投訴街上的壞人。（！！！！！）我笑笑問他到底是對我們中心有不滿呢，還是對社會不滿，他就說是對社會不滿。（！！！！！）

經過一輪妙問妙答後，他父母也出來了。

後來老師告訴我，這個小朋友的腦袋裡有很完整的價值觀，所以遇上不喜歡或是不合意的事情就會很用力反抗。她說：他是積累了很多前世的記憶．．．！

那一刻，我想起了「大隻佬」。

我有兩隻貓－阿波和阿喱。

個個都話我淨係鍚阿喱，尤其是當佢做左明星～～嘩哈哈～　我要做星媽．．．！！

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rjYBWbrwSjQ

今日阿波都好叻～　帶佢去 vet 打針，佢初初坐車好驚，跟住我抱住佢叫佢睇巴士，佢又真係乖乖地唔郁．．．（其實係驚到唔識郁）

打完針，我話不如放佢係地下自己行返屋企，佢又真係乖乖地自己行，仲行得快過平時幾倍。不過vet話佢真係要減肥囉，雖然佢on diet左成年，依然係太肥，俾vet下令佢食 obesity 既糧．．．:(

其實，我ｄ貓會唔會太狗呢？嘿嘿．．．

逢星期日我們都有個親子班。小朋友都是3-4歲的。而每一次, 都會有小朋友哭出班房。

我們這裡的家長都是明白事理的人, 這些小朋友都是因為一些無理取鬧的原因哭, 家長看在眼裡, 就不會怪老師。

上星期有報紙來採訪。有一個家長帶了姐姐和妹妹來玩。妹妹玩遊戲時給其他小朋友撞到了，便哭了出來。媽媽要照顧妹妹，又帶不了姐姐回班房玩，兩姐妹就一左一右地拉著媽媽在哭。

情急之下我便扮媽媽跟姐姐回班房玩了。

這個親子班是以歌舞的形式教小朋友做個乖小朋友。對上幾堂就是教 personality, id, ego 和 superego。聽起來好像很深奧, 但小朋友是一張白紙, 所以一說就明了和記著了。

我做假媽媽的時候, 老師會叫小朋友做 role play,　演如何做一個 personality A 的小朋友或是 id 的小朋友。然後就跟媽媽交換角色。媽媽要 lur 去麥當勞而小朋友要拒絕。小朋友就會明白不要做個野蠻BB。

我的假囡囡, 我說要吃漢保飽, 她說不; 我說要吃薯條, 她說不; 我說要吃雪糕新地, 她說不; 我說要吃開心樂園餐… 她忽然很高興的笑了起來, 說好丫~ #_#

老師又會要求小朋友很跨張地說多謝，和跨張地鍚媽媽。場面都很有趣。小朋友覺得有趣，就會跟著做，就會記得做。

做過假媽媽後，我每次見到「性格BB」, 都會推薦給媽媽。

Even though I haven’t had any "weekend" for quite a long time, I still knowing when is Saturday and when is Sunday. 

For me, Saturday is usually the busiest day in a week, but is also the "most profitable day".  I tried very hard to "gather" a new class (you will soon find out that it is not very easy to "gather" all those people to "become" a class).  Two didn’t show up finally.  The worst, inter alia, is that one who paid for the the class (for age 4-9) turned up to be a 14-year-old!!  Aiya, so embarrassing.  Of course someone has done something wrong..la…

Saturday night when I tried to upload a very old story (written long long time ago, really) to my webpage (http://www.lucia.ting.com/storyland/ff/ff_1.htm)… the connection was suddenly down.

Sunday morning la, I was supposed to see a flat near Tin Hau area with my friend.  I could have come out after my part-timer come to work.  She then… has forgotten that she needed to come to work…

Not to mention the coffee that I bought this morning…taste like milk + water.  Schmeckt schlecht!!